Wednesday

Relationships ...

Yes, cliched topic and boring... If i spoke about it, in context to my life... then you'd go like 'hey! nothing new'.
But somtimes, i feel like the best time to blog is when you know more than other people do... or at least you've been to a certain place or situation far more, than you know your friends have.. and it's only right to write about it ...

Relationships at this age are senseless. You claim to 'fall in love' but what your really doing, is feeling each other up. Ofcourse, your having good conversations.. and you'll are there for each other! So are friends right?

But yes, you get the jitters... and there's obviously something 'else' that you feel ... but you can't explain it right? BUT then the jitters fade...! And you feel it for someone new! Wow! How 'fast' you appear to be. But it's not your fault! It was not love to begin with... then why did you say it was? You obv have no idea. Well, nor do i... and i guess we'll never know.

But this thing called a relationship, is a mindless game, that we keep ourselves occupied with, so that we have a reason to smile about ... and then, when we're bored, we cry about it, blame it on depression faced by every sorrowful teenager pmsing 24/7 and before we know it, we're out and about.

Yes, this is a joykill for all those who have NEVER been in a relationship.

But relationships don't always work out that way. And i'm not going to state the pros of a relationship. I'm going to say look at a few of my friends and then you'll know that, even if it doesnt last... it was worth it. And i agree... because i understood so much of the relationships ive been in. Yes, they've been a lot and i've been called all sorts of names.. but it dropped wisdom in me AND i realised how awesome some people are... and that i didnt need to go out with them to see it. But we're still friends. and it's still great.

The point of this blogger? Not to cry about my well planned out love life.. how i dated the world, and im still not satisfied. lol. But because, my friend just broke up with his gf the other day, because she said she liked someone else. That's alright, cause it's honest. But she's said this for the second time (even tho after the first she said she'd forget her lil crush. yeah. right!) and my frend and her have been dating for two years.

What happens next?
He moves on. She's found someone new.
Relationship was perfect. Now, imperfect.

My heart sank when i heard it, and i still feel bad for him. Yes it was wrong. So here's to all those pathetic guys and gurls who wait till mid relationship to tell you they never liked you, who after 2 years said they accidentally fell for someone else, who cheated on, who cheated on u twice, who walked into your life just to walk out of it ...

3 comments:

Anand Lobo said...

"It is better to have loved and lost, then to never have loved at all ..."

lol indeed a cliched topic ..
but at least its some wisdom for us who've never had a relationship :-)
thanks stace =)

Barry! said...

i LOVE the last paragraph!

Anonymous said...

absolutely agree! absolutely love it!